Back to the Basics.

After having kids relationships are bound to change, couples have less time together and certain aspects of love making get pushed to the side or forgotten all together.  Lately my husband and I have been trying to capture what we have lost throughout our journey to parenthood.  Nights have been spent rediscovering each others bodies in ways that we haven't tried in years.  That time during the baby's naps on his days off have been spent kissing and fondling in a way that we haven't tried since the early days of our relationship.  The surprising part?  I really like it.  I like knowing that we can still have intimacy that isn't rushed.  What is even better is talking while your exploring each others bodies, find out what has changed or what your partner might want to try.  Those fantasies that you have been holding in might just be the kindling your sex life needs to roar back to life. 

One thing I have recently discovered is how hot my husband thinks it is when we kiss passionately after he has gone down on me.  He has always been sort of a neat freak and cleaned his face with a towel or rag when he finishes, but I like the way I taste in his mouth.  When I opened up about it and he let me kiss him deeply tasting myself on his lips and tongue it was like a aphrodisiac for both of us.  Now he will openly tell me how much he likes it when I suck my cum off his or my own fingers during sex and how hard it makes him.  Sometimes it's the small things that can make a big impact on your sex life.